more than just a spiritual benefit.
"Never trade temporary pleasure for permanent regret."
Dave Willis
Sex — a special key that God has only given to married couples, which, in the hands of the unmarried, amounts to thievery, breaking and entering.
Sexiness — something that outside of the marital bedroom offends the Holy, righteous God who promptly clothed Adam and Eve after their fall; something that runs contrary to biblical admonition — and that being: That women dress virtuously, and that men discipline their eyes.
The Author
"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity..." (Eph 5:3, NIV).
“For this is the will [desire] of God, your sanctification [holiness]: that you abstain from fornication; that each one of you know how to control your own body in holiness and honor, not with lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one wrong or exploit [take advantage of] a brother or sister in this matter, because the Lord is an avenger in all these things, just as we have already told you beforehand and solemnly warned you. For God did not call us to impurity but in holiness. Therefore whoever rejects this rejects not human authority but God, who also gives His Holy Spirit to you” (1 Thess 4:3-8).
"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication"
(1 Thess 4:3, KJV).
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God...neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers..." (1 Cor 6:9, KJV).
"...for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Heb 13:4, NIV).
"But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away" (Prov 6:32,33, NKJV).
Fornication:
Sexual intercourse between unmarried persons. And here, clearly includes any sexual activity between unmarried persons. Sex is sex, and sex is defined as those actions that generally lead to an orgasm.
"So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don't be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. Because of these sins, the anger of God is coming" (Col 3:5,6, NLT).
"Don't you realize that your bodies are actually parts of Christ? Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ,
and join it to a prostitute? Never! (1 Cor 6:15, NLT).
"And many will follow their sensuality, and because of them the way of the truth will be maligned"
(2 Peter 2:2, (NASB).
JESUS SAYS:
Sexual intimacy of any sort is not to occur before marriage. No pressuring or manipulation for such an end is to occur either.
And that lingering kiss on the lips, by the way, is clearly all part and parcel of what God has forbidden given that it’s of the same intimate nature. How many Christian women, I wonder, who wouldn’t go to bed with a man before marriage, are so kissed, only to marry none of those who such enjoyed, or a bit more. Such kisses naturally stirring a man’s loins which shouldn't be stirred outside of marriage.
Sex before marriage violates the marital covenant, God's purpose for sex and marriage.
Sex before marriage displays a lack of control that doesn't bode well for a future marriage.
Sex before marriage is a sin of no small means.
Sex before marriage usually gives to others what only one person is meant to get.
Sex before marriage can lead to unwanted children, that solo mother syndrome, all its hardships, and fatherless children.
Sex before marriage simply uses people for ones own selfish gratification. Love can wait to give, but lust can't wait to get.
Sex before marriage is a false witness and stumbling block.
Sex before marriage removes the motivation to work on the relationship, to truly win over the other person, and makes it easy for men to have their fill and go — men often losing interest in them after having had sex. So many men simply having sex with someone in order to fulfill certain short term psychological goals. And thus sex before marriage actually delaying marriage.
Sex before marriage shows that someone dosen't respect you enough to wait until the wedding night. And therefore, you'll be even less respected.
Sex before marriage dishonours Jesus.
Sex before marriage takes something very special and cheapens it. Turns a righteous act into an unrighteous act.
Sex before marriage lessens the solemnity of having children.
Sex before marriage makes marriage appear immaterial, and why marriages are taken less seriously.
Sex before marriage removes that very special memory making moment of a married couple's first night together.
Sex before marriage can be likened to forcing a door, prising a window open, or opening presents before the due date.
Sex before marriage removes those protections that God intended would spare us much pain and sadness.
Sex before marriage means we've settled for less.
Sex before marriage can actually ruin a relationship.
Sex before marriage is empty because it lacks commitment.
Sex before marriage isn't honourable.
Sex before marriage defiles the temple of the Holy Spirit.
Sex before marriage, immorality, hinders the Holy Spirit's working in ones life.
Sex before marriage endangers ones relationship with God.
Sex before marriage leads to greater pain when the relationship is ended.
Sex before marriage is risky because condoms don't always work.
Sex before marriage ignores the fact that sexual intercourse immediately changes everything between two people.
Sex before marriage can damage your reputation and future.
Sex before marriage can create a pattern.
Sex before marriage with multiple sexual partners means that in the future you will have had sex with someone else's wife or husband.
Sex before marriage with multiple sexual partners can lead to one getting or giving some sexual disease.
Sex before marriage with multiple sexual partners affects our ability to properly bond come marriage. We won't feel as connected or committed.
Sex before marriage with multiple sexual partners can make those sexual encounters appear in ones mind when one is in the midst of marital intimacy; and comparisons will be drawn.
SATAN SAYS:
Sexual intimacy can take place whenever you like with whoever you like, if they’re willing, that is. No restrictions of any sort, and pressuring and manipulation for such an end is up to you.
JESUS SAYS:
Marriage is a life-long union, a sacred covenant, a solemn promise, committment, agreement that is never meant to be broken. Such a commitment is to God as well as ones spouse.
A relationship where issues are meant to be lovingly and selflessly dealt with.
No one else is to share in this special, close, God ordained relationship that children shouldn’t be had outside of.
We can't be "one flesh" with multiple partners, and “one flesh” includes sexual intercourse.
"Because the LORD was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though
she is your companion and your wife by covenant" (Mal 2:14, ESV).
Living together is an acceptable casual arrangement-cum-relationship, one that can be ended at any time and without mutual agreement. Rather than resolving issues, one can simply opt out of the relationship; any children being immaterial.
If the relationship ends, someone else, sooner or later, can engage in that same closeness and intimacy with either of them that they had with each other.
By the way, mixed flatting is Satan’s foot in the door, and living together is a worldly way of aquiring a wife.
JESUS SAYS:
Because sexual intimacy is only for marriage, and thus a close relationship between a couple in a covenant relationship, adultery and even ogling is forbidden. So too that sharing of intimate details that belongs with that couple alone.
her in his heart' " (Matt 5:28, NASB).
“I have made a covenant with my eyes; Why then should I look upon a young woman [the lust of the eye is one
of man's biggest spiritual battles]?” (Job 31:1, KJV).
SATAN SAYS:
Sexual intimacy can still be had with someone else if one can get away with it without their partner knowing.
Or, one can indulge in wife swapping where ones wife and another couple are interested in same.
JESUS SAYS:
The sexual intimacy that takes place between a married couple must be in keeping with selfless, godly principles. When marriage is perverted to serve unworthy purposes, it loses the quality of being honourable.
Shouldn’t be lusty.
No pornographic material, thoughts or actions are to be present. Pornography is incredibly destructive, it badly impacting on and destroying marital relationships and homes.
No bondage sessions-cum-kinky sex.
Oral sex shouldn’t take place.
And regarding the latter, it’s surely this simple:
God intended that a penis only be inserted in a vagina. And bear in mind that a penis is also a urinary track; we living in a fallen world, not a pure, sterile, Edenic environment free from bacteria or other living microorganisms.
Thus when oral sex is indulged in (and more so where there's promiscurity) there’s a risk of:
a) Infections.
b) If the other person is infected with the sexual diseases (STD) Gonorrhoea, Syphilis and Chlamydia, there’s the risk of them transmitting them to the throat; along with HSV which can cause pharyngitis, an inflammation of the throat with ulcer formation.
This information was drawn from www.netdoctor.co.uk which also stated:
“Today’s high rates of oral sex are linked to the rising incidence of throat and mouth cancer.”
That same website also contained this:
According to the American Association for Cancer Research, more than 50 per cent of all oral cancers are now HPV related – though many others are caused by tobacco or alcohol.
This confirmed elsewhere too.
Oral sex is unhealthy, subservient and porn related.
SATAN SAYS:
Anything can go on during sexual intimacy:
Lustiness is okay.
Pornographic material, thoughts and actions are okay.
Bondage sessions-cum-kinky sex are okay.
Oral sex is okay.
JESUS SAYS:
The intimacy of ones body is not to be publicly displayed. God having covered such after Adam and Eve had sinned, and He calling women to be virtuous, not a stumbling block, nor a danger to other marriages. So, out goes bikinis which are really just a form of bra and panty, and just as stirring. Out goes those high skirts, those tight little crutch-hugging shorts, that teasing cleavage, and so on.
And no boyfriend or husband should encourage such public sexiness. And thus sexiness being kept to the marital bedroom alone. This all in keeping with the Bible telling men to discipline their eyes.
“I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God” (1 Tim 2:9,10, NIV).
"A gracious woman gets honor, but she who hates virtue is covered with shame" (Prov 11:16).
"For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter, Sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, Her steps lay hold of hell" (Prov 5:3-5, NKJV).
"...but rather determine this — not to put an obstacle or a stumbling block in a brother's way" (Rom 14:13, NASB).
SATAN SAYS:
Dressing sexy and public nudity is okay. And the more the merrier, because the devil wants what God covered uncovered, or as much as possible.
JESUS SAYS:
Christians should not look at or read anything that’s of a sexual nature, other than where appropriate — one example being the medical side of things. Christians are supposed to have made a covenant with their eyes. And feeding the mind with immoral thoughts can also lead to sexual misconduct. So, it’s no to the likes of girlie and porn magazines, sensual novels, that state of undress and sexual activity so common to movies, and that ogling of bikini clad women.
SATAN SAYS:
You can look at or read anything immoral you like.
JESUS SAYS:
Masturbation shouldn’t take place. Such not only being addictive, but selfish gratification, a self-centered view of sex, and akin to same-sex sexual acts. Masturbation being far from God's creational intent and purpose, and not without negative consequences.
Hence why the apostle Paul said that it's better to marry than to burn with passion, not that it's better to masturbate.
And, by the way, that better to marry than to burn with passion also means: Not turning to a brothel, girlfriend, nor the one that one may soon be marrying. In other words, we shouldn't satisfy our sexual passions with someone other than our spouse.
SATAN SAYS:
Masturbation is okay.
Hence why Satan's called the Father of Lies.
So take note:
godly lives as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming" (2 Peter 3:11,12, NIV).
“Be happy, young man, while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth [the appreciation of the blessings of life]. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see [legitimate desires and needs], but know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment” (Eccl 11:9, NIV).
Sex is a beautiful thing; only fallen man disfiguring it via the likes of porn.
Sex is a healthy thing; only fallen man’s overindulgence and perversions making it health robbing.
Sex is an intimate thing; only fallen man making it public via nudity and sexiness.
Sex is a loving expression; only fallen man reducing it to an animal act.
Sex is a tender expression; only fallen man turning it into a hurtful assault.
Sex is an uplifting experience; only fallen man turning it into a degrading affair via the likes of lust.
Sex is a giving thing; only fallen man turning it into a selfish demand.
Sex is a thoughtfully considered desire; only fallen man turning it into an undisciplined intrusion.
Sex is a God ordained, creation designed, male and female union; only fallen man turning it into a same-sex abomination.
Sex is a marital privilege-cum-bonding element; only fallen man seeking it outside of that relationship.
Sex is an avenue that God has given humans for procreation; only fallen man seeking abortions.
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POEMS
1. Man Talk
Earl was in a reflective mood, his chin on his hand, his eyes
closed, forehead furrowed,
And nearby was a friend of some years, who, Earl’s expression was
trying to decode.
Earl was a deep thinker — Paul too, for that matter — both similar in
many ways,
But this particular day seemed to be one of Earl’s more sombre and
reflective days.
Paul looked at Earl enquiringly. “Penny for your thoughts, mate.
Something bothering you?”
Earl’s eyes opened somewhat lazily, his friend’s lanky frame now coming
into view.
“Well, Earl began, “I was feeling bad about our middle-aged neighbour,
Bob Cherry,
And how some young women called him a pervert when he cast a glance
their way recently.
It’s okay for us young males, seemingly, but woe betide males somewhat
elderly,
Who, at the end of the day, are still males too, and males can’t help
being males, quite frankly.
Knowing Bob, I’m sure he meant no harm, and the way most girls dress
today, dear me,
It’s pretty hard not
to look — thus, I think Bob might have taken it rather badly.”
Paul sat down next to Earl, legs outstretched, sipping from a hot drink
somewhat gingerly.
“Oh dear,” he replied, “I’m sorry to hear that. He’s a lovely guy,
wouldn’t harm a flee.
And he was probably thinking back to his younger days, and no doubt
pensively,
But you know, it must be hard for these older guys now, given the
sexuality.
By that I mean, things were hardly like this in their day, women dressed far more modestly,
And today there’s so much promiscuity, some girls leading guys on blatantly.
I guess some of these older guys must feel that they’re missing out,
rightly or wrongly,
Thus, it must be pretty tough on them — so in their face — and doesn't
seem fair to me.”
“I agree,” echoed Earl, “And it must be hard on married guys too, quite
honestly,
Given one can dial a prostitute — or via a computer, bring up
pornography.
Such must be quite a temptation, which is why I guess many act
unfaithfully,
For even if they’ve a gorgeous wife, they’re confronted with teasing
bodies daily.
Say, did you notice Judy at church last week? She was seated in the
opposite pew.”
Paul raised his bushy eyebrows and nodded his head knowingly,
having seen her too.
“Man,” he responded, “I could hardly keep my eyes off her — now there was a
stumbling block!
I bet those older guys were struggling with it — I mean, what a sexy
looking frock.”
“It wasn’t just the frock,” Earl replied, “I know! I know!” Paul shot
back. “Revealing, ay?
Hardly appropriate for church. I bet there were a few thoughts going
askew that
day.”
“Yes,” Earl agreed, “But for a Christian girl, surely wrong at any
time, don’t you think?”
“I’ll say,” replied Paul, “Imagine those wolf whistles, the crude
exchanges, and that wink, wink.”
They both fell silent, just the ticking of the old wall clock sounding
in the room now,
Earl’s chin back on his hand, eyes staring into space, other hand
stroking an eyebrow.
Their thoughts returned to Bob and his unfortunate glance, given the
harsh reaction,
And they both thinking to themselves how much more there was to those
words “fatal attraction.”
How many others like Bob Cherry would hear “pervert” ring out,
unjustifiably?
And how many married men would yield to temptation, lose it spiritually?
After all, men are roused by the flesh, it’s the way they’re designed —
a burden
today,
Given all the sexuality that’s on tap, and so publicly on display.
And tragically, coming from Christian women too, who should know
better, surely,
For the ways of the world, and the current state of dress, are far from
the heavenly.
And by doing so, even Christian women reap what they sow, for why
should they not,
Given that they’re playing with sin, and can’t help looking back like
that foolish wife of Lot?
And while they’re at it, dragging men down with them; ensnared by
what’s bared, publicly shared,
Yes, those fashionable stumbling blocks, those Philistine ways, that
they shouldn’t have dared.
And to add insult to injury, confusing hard to stop glances with
deviant stares,
Both being something no women can prevent, when, what she’s unwise to,
she willingly bares.
By Lance Landall
Names
used are fictitious
Within this poem there are four verses that I have plucked from my
secular poem "Serious Fools, And Then
There's Sex" and which here, have the odd variation.
2. "And They Realised They Were Naked"
When Adam first beheld Eve, and Eve
beheld Adam, and they each others form, pre-Fall, pre-sin,
Their eyes were full of
wonderment, their thoughts pure and noble, every action under
discipline.
And there in Eden, they
innocently and righteously strolled together, love behind it all,
And so it would’ve remained,
their unclothed form so normal and natural, but then came the Fall...
“And they realised they were
naked”
And the rest is history (as
they say), for once sin entered, their innocent purity changed,
That rebellious partaking of
the forbidden tree ensuring that they were badly short-changed.
For what the serpent-cum-Satan
promised couldn’t possibly come true, which far too late was seen,
Enter clothing, the climate
not only cooling, but soon, man’s thoughts less selfless, godly and
clean.
Oh, how the body has become
the focus of much attention, man’s thoughts too low to mention,
And so too many a man’s
intention, let alone each debased pornographic invention.
And hence one reason why God
clothed Adam and Eve, for imagine how more lusty men would be
Were each woman’s body
completely exposed to their gaze, and they in such close proximity.
Oh yes, she so more vulnerable
in so many ways — but you know — (just like Adam’s wife Eve),
She’s fallen for the same
beguiling whispers, the devil having more than one trick up his sleeve.
For via the accent on “sexy” —
a cunning worldly word — she’s displaying a lot more bare skin,
And grabbing at clothes that
excite a man’s loins, which every Christian woman should regard as sin.
Well, as Eve soon discovered,
there’s a price for folly, the sexual meant for marriage alone,
And therefore, not a hint of
such should be publicly displayed, for such teasing God can’t condone.
Thus, should some Christian
woman be seen as “hot,” she’ll have good reason for concern, and shame
should feel,
For what God in His wisdom
covered, she’s been told not to provocatively dress or reveal.
Such has nothing to do with a
Victorian mentality, nor sexual repression,
But has everything to do with
the Word of God-cum-plain common sense, virtue and discretion.
And why women shouldn’t fuel
what entered via the Fall, but rather, encourage the pre-Fall mind,
As a man’s post-Fall mind
hardly seeks her best, unless it’s become spiritually refined.
And such God wants it to become,
each man’s mind pure and noble, his sexual thoughts heavenly,
And only towards his wife, he
not looking elsewhere, nor at images that tempt destructively.
In other words, all his
earthly impulses under divine authority-cum-sovereignty,
His wife thus knowing she’s
truly loved, and they as if back in Eden, not knowing nudity.
By Lance
Landall
3. Too Much Couldn't Be Said
A terribly sad and oft tragic truth
is, that in the hands of fallen man,
The opposite sex that God created has been subjected to a gross plan.
Not the one that God intended, but an earthly one that has used and
abused,
For how could such men handle rightly a being that such attractiveness
first oozed?
Oh, how drop dead gorgeous Eve would’ve been, but created for a righteous man,
A partner who would cherish and treat her in accordance with God’s holy plan.
But then came sin, man soon losing his nobility, goodbye morality,
And later, even Christian men indulging in same ways and
pornography.
And this after men having lusted for less clothing and far more flesh,
hence those
Ever rising skirts, plunging and see through tops that neither Eve nor
Mary chose.
Yes, fallen men encouraging women to be more daring, lapping such up,
Their unrighteous appetites wrongly partaking of both the Lord’s and
Satan’s cup.
And thus the beauty of a woman’s body — once pure joy — now
lusted after,
And this midst bedroom romps, saucy dances, wild groping and
unrighteous laughter.
Such men acting like uncontrollable bulls, even impregnating at will,
And most people saying, “Well, that’s just men,” the world so
accustomed to such ill.
Yes, too much couldn’t be said about this subject, manhood in crisis,
clearly,
And so it will remain ’till there’s a change, and Christian men
surrender fully.
For that attraction that first drew Adam’s gaze is no
longer seen via pure
eyes,
But eyes oft aflame with wanton desire
that so many men now typifies.
By Lance Landall
4. Below The Belt
Satan knows man’s weakness for women,
and in these last days he has focused his attention on such,
Encouraging the sexy,
promoting the porny, and hence why lust has many men in its
clutch.
But not just men have been
ensnared, for so have women, who once such sexualness would not
have dared,
And who’re now seen more
as objects, and is it any wonder, given how much they’ve publicly bared.
All how another thing
sanctioned by the Lord has been corrupted, for sex was for marriage
alone,
And even there, wasn’t to be
defiled, for even within marriage, there are things God won't
condone.
And rightly, for marriage
doesn’t make perversion pure, nor lust righteous, even if two be
agreed,
Hence why when purity,
temperance and selflessness aren't there, troubles and divorce are
guaranteed.
Satan has things figured,
knows man’s Achilles heel, which he's milking for all its worth, hence
the "sexy;"
In other words, the tight, low,
high, sheer, teasing, gaping, tempting and baiting, and so
on that we see.
Be such via the street, stage, cinema or T.V., or via videos, billboards, books and
magazines,
Debasing, enslaving and
destroying; Satan's cruel, knowing attack on
men midst Earth’s closing scenes.
Hence why there’s no
question that the sexual is one of the biggest issues facing us
today,
And why I’ve sought to address
such given how many are in its clutch, adding to moral decay.
Most without shame, they treating sex like a game — and others, succumbing to seductive
temptation,
And then there's
same-sex sexual acts, which, going by the Word, come under greater
condemnation.
Well, be it this or that, if it’s wrong it’s wrong, and those who continue in such, have
reason for fear,
For God has made His will
known, and the consequences too, which the Word of God conveys
loud and clear.
And such
instruction and warning but the product of love, love that knows what is
best for you and I,
Love that the strength to
resist and overcome sexual temptation, will via the Spirit supply.
By Lance
Landall
This poem was upgraded on 17 June 2023.
5. That Infamous Photo
There they were, a married Christian couple, his arm draped ’round her shoulder, and then
His hand clutching her breast — CLICK! — that photo soon on the web — oh, what foolish men.
And yet, it meeting her approval, because after all, “We’re married,” she said,
But others not impressed with such looseness, nor how her spouse didn’t use his head.
Yes, she not having a problem with such public sexual intimacy,
Which God intended only be carried out where there’s marital privacy.
Not where it would sexually arouse other men, and cause them to stumble,
That public grope akin to porn, and yet, that shot in harmony with her will.
“I’ve no problem with it,” she stated, thus a virtuous woman she was not,
And thereby out of sync with God’s Word, hence why “by their fruits” they’re easy to spot.
Disgusted observers not the only ones upset, but a righteous God too, who
Was shamed by both of them, Scripture making clear what we should or shouldn’t do.
By Lance Landall
6. Look At The Way You're Dressed
My, look at the way you’re dressed.
Aren’t you a Christian? Isn’t God’s Word very clear?
That skirt seductively high, that top seductively low, and hence why
men stare.
And you couldn’t get clothing any tighter, could you, which hardly
pleases Christ,
Let alone that money you’ve wasted, for some of that clothing’s
shockingly priced.
So much for modesty, chastity and temperance, such Christ having called
for,
Given that seen as you have become a Christian, you’re now His
ambassador.
And thus such no small matter, for we’re to witness of a God who is
Holy,
Not one who condones the immoral ways of the world, that clothing
that’s raunchy.
Yes, so much of it termed “sexy” because it blatantly shows off the
body,
And thus even married
women attracting other men, which they shouldn’t be.
But nor the Christian woman who’s single, for only future husbands
should see
Anything that is deemed “sexy,” and that, only in private, obviously.
No, this isn’t my
take on things, but the clear Word of God all Christians should know,
For God doesn’t want Christians acting worldly-cum-putting their body
on show.
Such being the way of the immoral, a state that Christians are to leave
behind,
For when Christ returns for His bride, it’s a changed-cum-pure one that
He wants to find.
By Lance Landall
7. A Call To Christian Wives
It’s only natural to want your husband
to desire and admire your body, but I’d mind the "sexy,"
Lest such too often play on your husband’s mind, for men are men, and
are very affected visually.
In other words, such may detract or subtract from his love for you as a
person, alter things mentally,
That is, may have him dwelling more on the sexual than is healthy,
thereby spoiling things maritally.
Such can also see your husband delighting in showing off your physical
attributes — a stumbling block,
That is, both to him and other folk, and is something that should never
be found within any Christian flock.
And lest you’re confused, we’re talking public sexiness
here, displaying that which only your husband should
see,
That is, when you're alone in the marital bedroom, or in your home, and
even there, acting thoughtfully.
Yes, sex is God given,
but it has its time and place — sexiness too-cum-titillation and
immodesty,
Something that outside of marriage is condemned by Scripture, and
that’s actually a form of adultery,
That is, if it’s a married
woman that’s doing the titillating, drawing another’s man’s attention,
That is, to what he shouldn’t see, or be aroused by, and thereby,
perhaps misread that woman’s intention.
Now, surely every Christian knows this — well, apparently not — or
they’re ignoring such — going by what’s seen,
For Christian woman after Christian woman has willingly succumbed to
the teasing “sexy” fashion scene.
And to boot, amidst Earth’s closing scenes, where Christians should be
divesting themselves of all that’s not heavenly,
For Christ will be looking for a bride who’s virtuous and faithful, not
one who’s flirtatious, vain and worldly.
Yes, sexiness has its time and place, though “sexy" is a very worldly
word, one that’s hardly for Christians,
For “sexy” has far more in common with saucy, raunchy, kinky and
naughty-cum-many deviant sins.
Therefore, dear Christian wife, it’s better not to use such a word, and
to mind how you go, even privately,
That is, in your marriage, for even there, that which teases should be
used with great care, lest it soil purity.
By Lance Landall
8. Women, Haven't You Been Told?
You haven’t? Well, if you’re a genuine Christian,
you’re hardly without excuse, even if you haven’t been told,
For the Bible is clear enough regarding the various things that we as
Christians are meant to uphold.
After all, and to get to what you should’ve been told anyway, how could
any Christian endorse sexy?
Unless we’re talking about the privacy of the marital bedroom —
otherwise, it’s adultery.
Well, a form
of, that is, if one is married, for no married Christian woman
should dress up sexually,
And by that I mean, publicly so, as she will quite clearly attract other men, and
this, immodestly.
And there’s the other point, for where is that virtuous moral woman
that every Christian female should be?
(That is, whether she is married or not), and not a stumbling block,
for the flesh is most men’s weakness, you see.
Thus, that sexy look places temptation in a man’s way, even a married
man’s way, hence his
adultery,
Well, often,
that is, or in his mind, as if he’s not tempted enough by what’s
out there, like pornography.
And why God won’t hold a Christian woman guiltless should she dress
sexy, for as I mentioned, God’s Word is clear,
And not meant to be taken lightly, for we’re His ambassadors, have been
told to walk obediently.
And hey, turning up at church looking sexy — well, that’s the ultimate slap in
God’s face, a double whammy,
For you not only take a man’s mind off sacred things, but shouldn’t be
dressed like that full stop, rebelliously;
In other words, so contrary to Christian standards and principles —
which yes, you should’ve been told as well,
But hardly need
to be, so don’t slam the pastor — God
will do that — for such, pastors are duty bound to tell.
By Lance Landall
9. That Fallen State Of Women
Oh,
that fallen state of women who strut their stuff like egotistical men,
They so unlike their humble, Holy Lord, and thus mocking each apostle’s
pen.
And many of them proud of their ability to ensnare sexually,
Men succumbing to a devilishly inspired flaunted and baited body.
History’s full of men great and small who a female’s body couldn’t
resist,
And who the power and victory supplied by the Spirit didn’t enlist,
But rather, yielded to temptation, that female body packaged to ignite,
And it belonging to many everyday women who choose wrong over right.
No, God never intended that females use their body in such a sad way,
They teasing or baiting via the sexy, that degree that they shouldn’t
display.
And oh, how men fall, their Achilles heel under constant attack, night
and day,
Be that via the sidewalk, television, or those spicy mags that holler,
“Hey!”
Oh, those errant women...
But surely not Christian
women? Oh, if only it weren’t, most not having learnt
That such fallen behaviour leaves one unfit for Heaven, oft sees one
get burnt,
For such doesn't just draw the eyes of good men, but evil
men they’ve cause to fear,
And why God doesn't want what He covered uncovered, even partially bare.
At the end of the day, we hardly live in Eden, but more like a jungle,
One where not just predators abound, but many Christian men whose
hearts aren't well.
And that's the sad reality, which foolish Christian women aid and abet
When they strut their stuff and the sounder ways of Christ and His
apostles forget.
By Lance Landall
10. Don't Break The Father's Heart
Is the following daughter you?
I’m terribly saddened to see
you dressing that way, and given that once it wasn’t so,
But such is inevitable, I
guess, when a Christian girl backslides and thus heeds our foe.
And what shame you bring on my
name, for “that’s so and so’s girl” they say, and why non-Christians
mock,
For they can spot hypocrisy a
mile away, and hence why Christians they’re oft heard to knock.
Yes, high skirt, low and taut
top, such being so unlike what God would have you wear, and how men
stare,
You placing a stumbling block
in many a man’s way, and why on God’s face there’s seen a tear.
Can’t you see you’re breaking
the Father’s heart? You also shaming Him and staining His good name,
And whack! There goes another nail
through His Son’s skin, all midst that earthly lust that you inflame.
Yes, I could use softer words, but
you need to know the weightiness of what’s occurring here,
You messing with your walk,
hurting and disgracing God, making Satan grin from ear to ear.
And oh, those debased
thoughts, and those filthy things that many a man will convey to his
mates,
“Isn’t she hot” being the far
lesser of the worst, which any sexy attire activates.
Oh yes, how such breaks the
Father’s heart, He being a Holy, righteous God, pure in every way,
And thus seeking a bride who’s
fit for
such a bridegroom, not one whose sad clothing sees her stray.
No, He a jealous God, all why
He wants us to come out of the world and shun its evils,
For when it comes to our relationship with
Him, He knows that the world’s ways act like weevils.
But hey, why shoot more nails
through the skin of our Lord? — and this, simply because it suits you,
You preferring to dress your way, not His way, which
kindles that fire in men who wrong pursue.
Or that tempts and distracts a
Christian
man, and while at it, saddens the heart of your caring dad,
Who shouldn’t be subjected to
such either; and why God quickly both Adam and Eve clad.
Yes, He well knowing how the
eyes of fallen men would be drawn to the flesh-cum-the sexy,
And thus why He wants
Christian women to dress prudently, and not somehow flaunt their body.
And why He wants Christian
daughters to listen to their earthly father as much as to He
When their dad says, “Don’t
break the Father’s heart by dressing sexy, nor sadden that heart within
me."
The truth is that what God
rightly covered, Satan wants uncovered,
or flaunted naughtily,
He even wanting the martial
bed degraded — enter porn, lush and that selfish “me.”
And such why I’m asking you
not to break the Father’s heart, for only your husband should see
What cannot help but stir a
man sexually, be it partially bared or totally.
By Lance
Landall
11. Living In Sin
Okay, let’s cut to the chase: Living
together isn’t marriage, but according to God’s Word, clearly sin,
And this, regardless of what
we think, or what the law of the land allows; and here, I'm addressing
the Christian.
The facts are, that God
instituted marriage as a lifelong covenant — something not
meant to be broken —
Hence why test runs, and
arrangements for opting out at anytime aren’t biblical, for God himself
has spoken.
Thus, Christian couples should
marry in the site of God, and by that I mean, via a Christian ceremony,
They thereby bowing to His wishes; and
thus their agreement to remain together being made publicly.
Yes, no quiet setting up
home-cum-living in sin, for such shows no serious intention, and one
big flaw,
And that being, their
willingness to accept an easier way out should things turn sour, and
hence that well oiled door.
Living together is a worldly
way of bypassing true commitment and martial dedication,
Such proven time and time
again by that well used door that is labelled compromise and
accommodation.
For when dissatisfaction
surfaces, or things begin to get tough, there’re few who’re prepared to
tough things out,
And why anyone who says,
“Let’s live together,” is someone whose genuineness we've good reason
to doubt.
The biblical marital covenant
provides both the wife and children with a certain security,
Such being something that is
so essential for the well-being and protection of every single family.
And hence why Satan is the
author of living together; and prenuptial agreements, which holler:
“If this marriage doesn’t work
out…” — get the picture? The accent here, one’s assets and the almighty
dollar.
Yes, man’s always hedging his
bets, self-interest coming first, as with premarital sex — such being selfish —
And the reason why is, because
lust cannot wait, its odour tainting marriages like a foul smelling
fish.
And such being the result of a
lack of discipline, the surrendering to passions, which never bodes
well,
For those who can’t wait,
carry the same lack of control into their marriage, hence why many
become a hell.
God desired that via marriage
we’d learn to live with our differences, things that annoy, and still
get along,
Whereas living
together-cum-living in sin, sees those very same things as good reason
for moving on;
Just like some people church
hop, and they oft the ones with the problem, for any hang-ups we don't
overcome,
Are hang-ups that we usually
take into another church or marriage, and there, beat the same old drum.
Yes, our marriage can say a
lot about our spiritual condition, and whether we’re a true Christian,
And why what we don’t overcome
there, we’ll have to overcome elsewhere, for all wrongful
behaviour is sin.
And so too is living
together-cum-living in sin-cum-rebelliousness, for it’s Satan’s
substitute,
And thus a false witness and
stumbling block — and if by their fruits we’ll know them, we’re not
looking at healthy fruit.
By Lance Landall
12. Not In Heaven's Name
If sex before marriage is sin, then so is dressing up sexually,
That is, before you’re married too, as you’re advertising your body.
And after getting married, you still shouldn’t dress up sexually,
For only within the marital bedroom should you share your body.
And share your body you do, ladies, when dressed sexually,
publicly,
For what’s exposed is displayed, noticed — a stumbling block,
effectively.
And let’s be honest — it’s teasing — whether you mean to or not, hence
why
Women can get attention they don’t desire — and thus, risks multiply.
Yes, what you expose you advertise too, and who knows who will
reply,
That is, respond to your message, and your product covetously eye.
And some who want that product, don’t want it for the right reasons,
clearly,
Or they try to steal it, rather than obtain it legitimately.
God only wants you exposing your character, an inner
beauty,
A beauty that draws attention to Him, and not
your anatomy.
And far less so, that territory that arouses sexually,
Be that via a hint, or semi-nudity, that scoffs at chastity.
Yes, be that via a subtle tease, or via shameless generosity
That displays just enough to draw, or that hollers promiscuity.
Yes, low-cut enough to awaken, daring enough to really excite,
Tight enough or high enough to tempt, or effectively invite.
Whether it’s less or more, subtle or blatant, it’s contrary to
Scripture,
And rather than virtue, such paints a worldly and unholy picture.
It leaves the door ajar, or takes it off its hinges, inviting ill,
For what you expose you advertise, and thus certain forces propel.
Yes, sex before marriage is sin, and so is dressing up
sexually,
That is, outside of marriage, and marital privacy, obviously.
And whether that displayed is a little or a lot, it’s all the same,
Scripturally unjustifiable, forbidden, not in Heaven’s name.
By Lance Landall
13. Better God's Time And Place
He really like her — in fact, wanted to have sex with her, but
God saying wait,
He knowing someone else would marry her despite Sam being her current
date.
But oh, that kissing and so on — yes, it could only lead to one thing,
and so,
The greatest of intimacies was partaken of, a seed one shouldn’t sow.
Sam soon on his way, and Sue in time expecting, but not a bundle of joy,
For the last thing she wanted out of wedlock was a fatherless baby boy.
And God just as sorry — oh, if only she had waited like the Good Word
said,
Not letting Satan dupe her just like Eve, who also on forbidden
fruit fed.
By Lance Landall
14. God Must've Known Something
There are those who’d like to go naked, and who encourage other people to,
But God must’ve known something, and why He clothed us, thus keeping
things from view,
Because aside from temptation, not everyone’s a pretty site,
you know,
And then there is age, that time when life's curtains are bringing a
close to the show.
Yes, best we’re clothed given man’s fallen state, his or her penchant
for showing off,
And I refusing to elaborate any further lest you kind of cough.
People bad enough now with their vain exhibitions and that state of
undress,
It offending many folk, and it’s as if there’s a race to wear less and
less.
Yes, God puts it on and man takes it off — no surprises there, man used to sin,
He no longer feeling shame, but brazen with it, though surely not the
Christian.
Well, sad to say, Christians too have gone astray, some hardly as cute
as they think,
A common thing; and there within their relationship with God is seen a
chink.
After all, who might be getting the glory, and who’s witness is
compromised,
Certain observers lusting, and some possibly having evilly surmised;
For surely if he or she dresses like that….yes, it does get people
thinking,
And as far as our righteous, holy God goes — no, at such He isn’t winking.
By Lance Landall
15. The Less You'll Recognise It
I’ve seen men looking at you — they lusting, actually — not
that they should be,
But I’m not surprised, because your clothing has become more slinky and
sexy.
It both hugging and revealing what you should have been concealing, sad
to say,
Hence that stumbling block that you’re cruelly and constantly placing
in a man’s way.
The more you move from Me, the less you’ll recognise it, it step by
step, you see,
Yes, a gradual decline, and where will it all lead to eventually?
I’ll tell you where, where Satan wants it to, and he having done well
already,
It only My
hand that keeps one from slipping, and that keeps one true and steady.
By Lance Landall
16. God Invented Sex, Satan Invented Porn
When Adam first beheld his gorgeous wife — Eve — and the
beauty of her body,
He must have been truly stunned and in awe of God’s creative ability.
There no lust in Adam’s heart or mind, but an innocent, Holy attraction,
Though here’s where Satan (the originator of porn) soon sprang into
action.
And hence the first seduction, unholy deflowering, pornographic scene,
Purity assaulted, stripped, dragged and raped, man’s thoughts now
unclean.
Satan’s
plans for sex on the agenda, sex no longer about love, but lust,
Hence relationships no longer about longevity, wholesomeness or trust.
Solomon’s admiring words now exchanged for fifty shades of grey, filthy
blue,
And therefore, lust not waiting until that time God set when couple’s
say, “I do.”
The bedroom no longer sacred, nakedness no longer a righteous scene,
Hence why when couples get married now, they oft don’t know where the
other has been.
The real
author of Fifty Shades Of Grey behind other trees, still seducing,
And why rather that good
seeds these days, it’s baleful
seeds that sex is producing.
Men beholding what God didn’t intend that men see, except maritally,
Courtesy of Satan’s lie that sees women flaunting their bodies publicly.
Yes, God invented sex, Satan invented porn, and hey, no surprises there,
Because Satan has always sought to corrupt that good that God has
sought to share.
And God did in fact see that all that He’d made was indeed “very good,”
until
As with sex, Satan ambled along, and turned something good into
something ill.
And you know,
Satan has sought to disfigure
that body that Adam first beheld with joy,
It tattooed, pierced and bulging with toxic implants, ’cause Satan
loves to destroy.
It no longer natural, nor virginal, but mostly one that’s been around,
And why where there’s sex outside of a committed, loving marriage,
Satan’s found.
And you’d better believe it, ’cause if we’re messing with God’s temple,
which we are,
Or rebelliously burning that bra, we’re not heading towards some
Shangri-La,
But rather, some fateful coming day that will bring an end to such ill
and shame;
In other words, those Satanic things that divert, injure, lower and
inflame.
By Lance Landall
17. The Pull Of Planet Muck
Man and woman, ay, purity and beauty,
but oh dear, now
what do we see,
Steamy rendezvous, houses of
ill repute, strip clubs, sleaze-cum-pornography.
Yes, welcome to planet Muck,
it also home to rapists and paedophiles,
And our Holy God deeply
pained, very angry, for such evil really riles.
Yes, God hates sin, all why
He’s slowly removing His restraining hand, clearly,
For He has had to sit and
watch the degradation of those He loves dearly.
Oh yes, He indeed merciful,
but muck has beguiled many of His own, who,
If not the very worst of
things, the likes of sex before marriage still pursue.
Yes, it’s as if everyone’s at it,
hence Christendom hardly squeaky clean,
Other worlds agasp, planet
Muck marring the universe, it not clean and green.
And God pleading: “Repent,
’cause I’m coming soon, My warning expressing My love,
’Cause those still beguiled by
the lusts of planet Muck won’t enter Heaven above.
So cut the adultery, keep your
single hands to yourself, and mind your eyes,
Because the purity of My
kingdom is hardly for those who such muck prize.
Such but the creation of a
grubby devil who likes to sexy things up,
And why I’ll judge the world
in righteousness, iniquity having filled man’s cup.
All this muck is harming you,
such not found in the garden of Eden, oh no,
But outside where Adam and Eve
were sent after having lost purity’s glow.
They aware of their nakedness
which I soon covered, but what have humans done?
Whittled that clothing down,
and so too My own children, thereby shaming the Son.
Oh, how I hate that pull that
planet Muck has on you, as if grace covers such,
For let me make one thing very
clear: Any who think so, don’t know very much.
All why Christians are coming
under My scrutiny too, because I loathe
sin,
My grace no cloak for
rebellion, and hence My Law written on that heart within.
The truth is, that you’ve stained
yourself, Satan simply the supplier of that muck,
You standing on the corner
waiting, and when he turns up, you unloading his truck.
Or at least taking your share,
and why I’m warning you, because I’m almost there,
Heaven as close or far as your
response, because I’ve left that choice in your care.
It seems you’re not seeing
things, or are choosing to ignore them, and that won’t do,
Because I’m a Holy, righteous
God, a moral
God, a stickler for virtue.
Thus any kind of immorality,
even hint, is abhorrent to Me,
And why a time’s soon coming
when I’ll say to those on My left, 'Depart from Me,
Ye that work iniquity.' "
By Lance
Landall
“You were taught with
regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, corrupt
and deluded by its lusts,
and
to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to clothe yourselves
with the new self, created according to the likeness of God in true
righteousness and holiness [God accepts people where they are, but He
gives them no
excuse for staying
there]” (Eph 4:22-24, ESV). Note also James 4:17.
"Know
ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of
God...neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers..." (1 Cor
6:9, KJV).
"Flee fornication. Every
sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth
fornication sinneth
against his own body" (1
Cor 6:18, KJV).
"Neither yield ye your
members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin..." (Rom 6:13, KJV).
"Flee also youthful
lusts: but follow righteousness..." (2 Tim 2:22, KJV).
"For this is the will of
God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication"
(1 Thess 4:3, KJV).
"So speak ye, and so do,
as they that shall be judged by the law of liberty" (James 2:12, KJV).
18. Why "Virtuous" Relates More To Women
The word “virtuous,” according to the Concise Oxford English Dictionary
Means: Having or showing high moral standards, and there in brackets we also see
The comment: Especially of a woman. And I guess that’s why biblically
Such a word is used when speaking of Christ-like women, and how God wants them to be.
Yes, it’s no doubt a question of a woman’s beauty, her strong sexual appeal,
And those loin-stirring desires that any man in the street (or church) can soon feel.
Such stirrings and feelings meant for marriage alone — yes, that one flesh intimacy,
Which our God never intended be shared or revealed publicly via the sexy.
And yes, women having more to reveal than men, like those male-captivating breasts,
In which (via titillating bras and plunging necklines) the modern woman invests.
She knowing full well the drawing power of such, many using it to ensnare,
Which is why men are warned to mind such women, and at such sexiness, not to stare.
David learning the hard way, Bathsheba’s nakedness proving too much for him, and
He soon having cause to regret how he let his eyes linger, ’cause murder he planned.
It all haunting him for the rest of his life, not that Bathsheba was at fault here,
But certainly those whose sexiness causes a stumbling block, many men to leer.
Oh yes, men quickly aroused by such, it being the way they’re designed, and therefore,
Women not placing temptation in their way, except behind that marital door.
One that shouldn't be opened to anyone else in any shape or form, which means,
One also avoiding those satanically-inspired Hollywood bedroom scenes.
In other words, those scenes where women share and reveal to all, married men at home,
Who, via watching such, are more likely to become discontented and somehow roam.
It’s all about saturation, though public sexiness is enough on its own,
And by the way, those same Hollywood actors acting like their bodies are on loan.
Oh yes, it’s all biblically forbidden and condemned, and with good reason too,
God knowing the outcome of it all, a path that so many have had cause to rue.
Sex being man’s Achilles' heel, and one reason for that word virtuous, clearly,
Because wherever women have ignored it, it has cost both them and men dearly.
Virtuous — yes, it has a beautiful ring to it, one that’s righteous and holy,
Such a woman hardly marred or soiled by fallen invention and artistry.
No, it’s all about inner beauty, not outer beauty, because that can ensnare,
And it does, when what God wants kept for marriage, women publicly parade and bare.
High skirts, low tops, underwear type swimwear, anything that even more will reveal,
And why (lustful, later replayed and oft wrongly utilized) viewings many men steal.
Yes, it’s all far from what God intended, and why He’s offended, ’cause He sees too,
And why He covered that fallen couple in Eden whose nakedness was on view.
And so, enter two words, “virtuous” for women and “honourable” for men, who,
Despite sexual titillations and temptations that they’re now subjected to,
Should still act honourably like their heavenly example, and the right thing do,
Thus keeping their focus Heavenward, which, so should every Christian woman too.
By Lance Landall
19. And Yet, It's Men Some Knock
If a woman comes to church dressed sexy, and the minds of men are thus aroused,
“It’s their fault,” he said of those men, ’cause in their minds, only the Holy should be housed.
And I gagged, because not only should women never come to church dressed that way,
But, “Don’t put a stumbling block in the way of another,” Christ was heard to convey.
Oh, such ignorance, God having made men the way that they are, with such a radar,
Which is naturally activated by such, like that GPS in a car.
Yes, men needing to mind their radar, but Christian women told to dress modestly,
Because a certain signal was only meant to be picked up come matrimony.
It’s one thing for men to register ATTRACTIVE, such LEVEL ONE on their radar,
But SEXY is LEVEL TWO, which outside marriage, has that radar turning too far.
And when it does, due to what shouldn’t be on show at church, interference occurs,
Worldly static that interrupts the Holy, ’cause something physical in men stirs.
No, it’s not the man’s fault, his reaction normal, though needing to be controlled here,
But that image still flashing, and of course there’s that tendency to stare.
Oh, how women need to understand how men are made, and take care, and more so here,
’Cause church is where God never intended anything be fully or partly bare.
After all, God clothed Adam and Eve, and, I must add too, not with what was sexy,
Such nothing but a product of the Fall, and the corrupting of society.
And thus sexiness out of place both in the church and on the street, a stumbling block,
And the ones who’re causing such stumbling in need of rebuke, and yet, it’s men some knock.
By Lance Landall
20. What Was He Thinking?
God had blessed David greatly, all why battle after battle he’d won, and then
After bedding Bathsheba, he had her husband murdered (a man amongst men).
One feels like screaming, “Why did you do such a stupid, evil thing!?” What madness!
And what one would surely only expect to see coming from inherent badness.
But David a good man, much loved by God, even a man after His own heart,
Though only when doing right, that was, ’cause over Bathsheba things fell apart.
And God severely punishing him, and rightly so, ’cause cruel it was indeed,
A wickedness beyond belief, and given all his concubines, he’d no need.
So break God’s Law he did — adultery, murder, covetousness, thievery —
And with it, he setting a bad example for more fools to follow, sadly.
But wakeup he did, though after the event, regret and pain to follow, and
A serious lessening of respect, word having soon spread throughout the land.
Feeling victorious and powerful after having won many a war,
He looked over his kingdom from his rooftop where that gorgeous body he saw.
Yes, lets be honest here, he drawn to her nakedness, the flesh taking hold,
All why she was summoned to his palace where more of the story would unfold.
Yes, that naked image of her replaying in his mind, as it does with men,
And then one thing leading to another, thus history repeating, again.
Oh yes, that “again” playing out every day, and all for what, simply sex.
And God most displeased with David, yet merciful, given we’re all human wrecks.
It not having done David any good, and the biggest mistake that he’d made,
And when he clearly knew that adultery and murder God strongly forbade.
All after God having blessed him so richly, which shows the pull of the flesh on man,
Who, after the fall, and in every respect, has gone contrary to God’s plan.
All why things haven’t improved, and women hardly dressed like they were in David’s day,
But more advertising boards for the opposite of virtuous, I must say.
Hence those Davids growing by the day, who don’t need some rooftop whereby to view
What draws the eyes of men and awakens lust, and even further ill leads to.
By Lance Landall
21. May I Be Frank?
Before
man’s fall, when he walked tall, his sex-drive was balanced, noble and
held in check-cum-not a millstone around his neck, and by the latter I
mean, it not a curse but a blessing, his thoughts and actions
pure-cum-clean, but after man’s fall-cum-faulty call, oh, what a
change, they acting harsh and strange, hence much that’s now seen to
appal, which, by the way, God could foresee, and such, one reason why
He clothed Adam and Eve, undoubtedly.
Yes,
God knew that man (who evil soon began), would be bad enough with woman
clothed let alone unclothed, and this clearly seen today, for when
women dress sexy, pose naked in mags and star in pornography, men’s
thoughts and actions worsen dramatically.
In
other words, the more flesh a woman shows, and the more sexy her
clothes-cum-down a certain path goes, the more a man’s fallen sex-drive
is inflamed, and thus why many men their own have shamed, they falling
victim or creating a victim,
hence those scandalous details, those tragic marital tales and
overflowing jails, and so it will continue to be until women dress and
act more virtuously, and men return to Adam’s pre-fall spirituality.
It’s
really two and two makes four, man’s fallen nature at the core, and why
most succumb so easily to what’s exposed and dressed up sexually, and
why such doesn’t help a man,
but rather, error and ill is oft seen to fan, for what a woman thinks
excites, often also powerfully ignites, and such no surprise here, for
one thing’s very clear: A male’s arousal is very quick and oft akin to
a powder keg affair.
And
yes, God knows this, and hence His call for women to dress and act in
line with the heavenly-cum-Eve’s pre-fall spirituality, neither she nor
Adam focussing on the body but on the whole-cum-what’s wholesome and in
harmony (biblical, actually), and so it should also be today, for when
men and women from such stray-cum-get their fallen way, it only leads
to what disappoints and is seen to betray — well, eventually.
Sure
God invented sex, and there’s nothing wrong with sex, but He never
intended it figure outside of marriage, you know, and that including
men not putting their wife on show — oh yes, for so many men love
showing off what’s theirs, they enjoying all those “Wish I had that or
her” stares, and regarding that sexy “her,” such not only a form of
cruelty (it teasing other men most unfairly), but a risk husbands take
that can leave pain in its wake, for lustful and jealous seducers can
appear, and those who aren’t happy to just simply leer, and “Goodbye”
says some wife, or, “Now look what’s happened in my life!”
God
well knows the dangers of the sexual outside of marriage — they many —
but these days, fewer folk seeming to concern themselves with any,
hence those one night stands, adulterous affairs, abortions-cum-guilt,
anxiety and fears, not to mention sexual diseases, the result of he or
she doing what he or she pleases, rather than sticking to God’s will
and plans, He having once again lost out to man’s, and we, now looking
at a sad and sinking society.
Yes,
we can condemn the thoughts and acts of men — that is, wayward and
undisciplined men — but so many women are thinking and acting just as
badly, and thus aiding and abetting, quite honestly, and therefore,
should hesitate before they point a finger, or, get their own house in
order, and just as quickly.
By Lance Landall
HOMOSEXUALITY
22. Out Of The Closet
Am I anti Gay folk? No! Am I anti same-sex sexual acts? Certainly!
Why? Because my God is, and if He is, then that is His direction for me.
Am I homophobic? No! And nor is God, for He loves all humanity,
Which is why I would never treat a Gay person any differently.
As I understand it, Gay people can be born that way, unfortunately;
The result of various things going astray in the womb, undoubtedly.
Therefore, such is hardly their fault, and they, thus deserving of our sympathy,
But not our acceptance of same-sex sexual acts; which Paul condemns strongly.
Was Paul a prisoner of his culture? No, for God made male and female,
Thus, those who attack Paul's condemnation, clearly God's boundary walls assail.
And also sense, for just take a look at the male and female anatomy,
Which clearly shows that same-sex sexual acts have no legitimacy.
Thus, the Christian Gay person should refrain from such -- it's a cross that they must bear,
Just like any other cross, and they're not alone, for burdens we all must bear.
But such is a very small sacrifice when compared to our eternal prize;
And given God's coming consuming wrath, a path that's much safer and wise.
God means what He says, His Word is trustworthy and true, far from out of date,
As it's still clear that women were meant for men, and men for women, (meant to mate).
And hence why same-sex sexual attraction is unnatural, not meant to be,
In other words, such is abnormal, a distortion, even an absurdity.
Yes, "As in the days of Noah," hence that blatant 'coming out' that we see today,
And oh, how the closet door has sprung open, for we're often hearing, "I'm gay."
It seems as if such has become fashionable, a badge to be worn proudly,
And hence those cries of "Live and let live, and certain changes legislatively.
Whether one's born that way, or so conditioned, God will not excuse its practice,
For same-sex sexual acts draw one into an unhealthy shameful abyss.
An abyss of Satan's engineering, which breaches a demarcation line,
Assaulting God and His Word, and violating His creational design.
Despite all the woes besetting earth, God still wants His directives maintained,
For against such (and more so during such times as these), Satan has shrewdly campaigned.
Yes, midst times like these, he tries to make gross offenses seem minor, or not sin,
And is attempting more than ever to corrupt the masculine and feminine.
Regardless of the times, it's the Christian's duty to uphold God's will, and fully,
Thus, what's wrong is wrong, and shouldn't be embraced, lest one incur the penalty;
Yes, not just God's wrath, but those meantime consequences that plague society,
And that can seriously and injuriously affect one personally.
We can't get around God's Word, though many try in order to sanction some sin,
A sin in itself, which clearly shows that something's seriously amiss within.
When it comes to our walk with God, and our salvation, we can't have it both ways,
Which sinners will soon find out, as did ancient Israel, for rebellion never pays.
By Lance Landall
23. Same-Sex Sexual Acts
Of course God isn’t happy with same-sex sexual acts, for look at the facts,
He creating a woman for man, hence Adam and Eve, which the Bible backs.
Yes, they both different sexually, designed to create a family,
And thus continue that line of masculinity and femininity.
But along came the Fall and much has gone astray, and hence why we see today
Same-sex sexual acts that the clear commands of our Creator disobey.
Yes, He a God of order and design, who here, drew a demarcation line,
And said, “Don’t mess with, blur, nor distort this male and female creation of Mine.”
And not surprisingly, for how would you feel if you were Him, and mankind said,
“Despite what You want, we’re going to be intimate with our own sex instead.”
Well, I’m sure that you’d be angry, you the Creator and they your creation,
Yet, having the gall to challenge your authority via some deviation.
Hence no reason to be proud of being Gay, despite not choosing to be that way,
For being proud of being what God never intended one be, is to “So what!” say.
And that of course ignores and tramples over biblical commands and plain facts,
When one should bear that cross like any other cross, for feelings don’t change the facts,
Nor somehow bless wrong acts.
Though sympathetic to those so burdened, Christians should never veer from God’s Word,
For ill has always followed where folk have gone along with what’s wrongly preferred.
After all, God knows best, and what’s His is His, enter you and I by design,
Who via those same-sex sexual acts, God’s perfect creation will undermine.
Yes, God is very fussy when it comes to His commands, that which He’s conveyed,
He being the unchangeable God, who despite His love, justice will not evade.
For when a man lays with a man, or a woman with a woman, such shouts “sin,”
Given that God has said “No!” to such, and thus such acts clearly being rebellion.
But with the Bible little regarded today, and challenged by Christians too,
Such acts aren’t bothering the same, all why society’s short on moral glue.
And thus most treading the broad way, their end as sure as Satan’s, for God must act,
They having removed, altered and mocked all that He said He wanted left intact.
By Lance Landall
24. God's Demarcation Line
God’s great love encompasses all, for there is no one that He will shun,
Including homosexuals, given that He died for everyone.
Yes, transsexuals, lesbians, and those who're bisexual as well,
Are all loved by God above, 'cause this fact, we via the Scriptures can tell.
However, our God clearly says that same-sex sexual acts are out,
And that very soon He will punish all who this command choose to flout.
His Word tells us that such sexual acts are an “abomination,”
Which very clearly declares to us the strength of His condemnation.
Yes, God's Word clearly tells us that such sexual acts are very wrong,
And even Paul when he speaks of them, uses language that's just as strong,
For he calls such acts “unnatural,” and he says that they're “shameful” too,
And also makes it clear that offenders such rebelliousness will rue.
To be that way is one thing (for it appears that some are born that way),
But putting such into practice is to clearly God’s word disobey,
For He considers such a sin, a sin that He has always abhorred,
And on all those who are unrepentant, His great wrath will soon be poured.
You see, such sexual behaviour runs contrary to God’s design,
And thereby just violates His creational demarcation line.
That being, a line that He has set, one that He has never wanted crossed,
For He knows that such wrongful behaviour introduces what will cost.
Thus, our Creator intended that sexual attraction only occur
Between a man and a woman (whose differences would thereby stir).
And hence the way that we've been designed, and why men sow and women bear,
For God intended that only a husband and wife have kids to rear.
Even dressing up in clothes that are the opposite to your gender
Will bring you under the classification of being an offender,
For our Creator doesn't want the gender distinctions marred or blurred,
And nor for that matter, Christians going against any of His Word.
Therefore, if the clothing that you're wearing has the label "unisex,"
You are unwittingly aiding one of Satan’s very clever tricks,
For wherever Satan can do so, he will distort and undermine,
As he is certainly no respecter of God’s demarcation line.
Since Adam and Eve's fall in Eden, Satan has continuously
Done everything within his cruel power to degrade humanity.
And he's targeted morality, for he knows that once such departs,
He has clearly gained the upper hand, and got control of human hearts.
Therefore, we should never ever condone any immorality,
For history has clearly shown that such just injures society.
Yes, our Creator knows what’s best, hence those boundaries that He has set,
But sadly, so many people, Christians, this earth’s past mistakes forget.
The Scriptures clearly tell us, that God's demarcation line still remains,
Hence why anyone who’s prudent, from such wrong sexual acts refrains,
For eternal life's not given to any who choose to disobey,
As those who willingly choose to disobey, rebellion still display.
But remember though:
That it is only sin that God hates, for He loves the sinner dearly,
Hence those dreadful marks upon His hands which show that love very clearly.
And hence why He wants us to hate sin too, but like Him, the sinner love,
Thereby reflecting in our lives the loving righteous God who's above.
By Lance Landall
“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination” (Lev 18:22, NKJV).
“If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely
be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them [such practices are
sinful and apart from God’s will (1 Tim 1:8-11). Practices of this type
produce a serious distortion of the image of God in men and women, and
are strongly
condemned throughout Scripture]” (Lev 20:13, NKJV).
“For
this reason God gave them up [allowed them to reap what they sowed] to
degrading passions [the unnatural vices of pagan society]. Their women
exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural [anal], and in the same way
also the men, giving up natural intercourse with woman, were consumed
with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men
[homosexuality, sodomy] and received in their own persons the due
penalty for their error [sexually transmitted diseases, ill health or
death]” (Rom 1:26,27).
“And
since they did not see fit to acknowledge God [this implies that their
rejection of God was not unconscious], God gave them up to a debased
mind [God left them to a state of mind that was evil] and to things
that should not be done [indecent, perverted, unnatural]. They know
[revealed in the conscience] God’s decree [judgment], that those who
practice such things deserve to die [the fatal consequences of sin]—yet
they not only do them but even applaud others who practice them [show
approval, encourage, heartily endorse]” (Rom 1:28,32). Note also Phil
3:19.
“Likewise,
Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which, in the same
manner as they, indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural
lust [sodomy], serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of
eternal fire. Yet in the same way these dreamers also defile the flesh,
reject authority, and slander the glorious ones” (Jude 7,8).
“Do
you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do
not be deceived! Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes,
sodomites [Cassell dictionary states – anal intercourse with a man or
woman, or sexual relations with an animal], thieves, the greedy,
drunkards, revilers, robbers— none of these will inherit the kingdom of
God” (1 Cor 6:9,10). Note also Lev 18:6-17,23 regarding bestiality and
incest.
“Neither
yield your members [the organs and faculties of the body] as
instruments of unrighteousness unto sin…”
(Rom 6:13, KJV).
“The
woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a
man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto
the Lord thy God” (Deut 22:5, KJV).
“Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair, it is degrading to him” (1 Cor 11:14).
Regarding far more on homosexuality, and both secular and Christian poems and
articles
on this subject, see the purple box titled Aberrant
Attraction secular
poem list section.